MENAGE A TROIS – THE STRUGGLE TO HAVING A THREESOME

By Stephanie Ferreira
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Updated: February 29, 2020

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If you saw Muscle Sport Mag instagram live with the incredible Joe Pietaro on Valentine’s Day or if you tuned into my show last Saturday night, you would have heard me talk about the struggle to find a third member for a future menage a trois.

In 2020, one would think with all the social media connections and apps out there, it would be easier to find that one special person to bring into the mix… but it’s almost like a constant fucking cock block.

WHERE TO FUCKING BEGIN?

Threesomes are for the college years or for those experimenting – MYTH

It all starts with a conversation with your partner. Discuss what you are looking for, what you want to accomplish and how it can enhance the experience. Create a list of pros and cons. If there’s jealousy and trust issues, it may be time to walk away from the idea. Don’t have too many limitations, as it can actually spoil the fun for one, two and three.

So You both want to try and are ready to search. Do we ask someone we know?

Sometimes with pals you can shoot the shit and laugh about stuff, but it’s always a good idea to discuss it. Be brutally honest. What would it mean for your relationship in the event it doesn’t fucking work? What is the target you are looking to get and what results? It isn’t about bragging rights, but more of exploring more than one lover at a time.

Protection

Number one rule that should be abided is the the health and safety of all participants. Fucking wear protection and practice safe sex.

Do I seek professional help?

Seeking a professional like an escort can be a great way to find that third but all too easily. They won’t be emotionally involved, however buyers beware; it can be extremely costly.

Location, Location, Location

Something else to think about: where the fuck to fuck? Now that is the question and something for you to think about.

Who gets the final say in the third PARTICIPANT? LADIES CHOICE

ALL IN ALL – IF YOU FIND YOU ARE SEARCHING TOO HARD, put the idea on hold. It is supposed to be a fun experience. No one should lose any sleep looking for a third participant. Some ideas to get into the spirit: go to a strip club, watch your partners expressions and body language. You will see the signs if it is something you both want.

Question: If you can fuck them in front of me, will you fuck them behind my back? This question often is the one that arises. If it is a threesome that you are looking for, stick to it. Once again, I say talk it out. Let it be known. If a partner is upset or becoming emotional, it may be a great idea to not have that threesome.